The state is cautioning parents to be careful when choosing a daycare facility after the death of a three month old baby lead to the closing of a day care center in Apex.

The Department of Health and Human Services suspended the license of Judy's Home Care on Laura Duncan Road after finding there was inadequate supervision, soiled diapers on a couch, frayed electrical wires and exposed wood with small nails where a carpet had been ripped out. Those are just four of 17 violations that were found.

But Jackie Quirk with the North Carolina Child Care Health and Safety Resource Center said this is not the norm.

"Child care actually can be a positive environment for many children," Quirk said.

Quirk said there are some quick tips for parents.

"Families should go to the North Carolina Division of child care Web site. They have many resources for parents to choose quality child care. They have programs listed by their star rating and a checklist for families so they know what questions to ask," Quirk said.

She also said families should visit the center before making a decision.

Parent Katherine Gaertner said parents should continue to drop by even once their child is enrolled in the program.

"I would always tell parents -- surprise visits. Safety is definitely number one," Gaertner said.

Quirk agreed that visits are a must.

"An open door policy is required in North Carolina, and it's a good idea," Quirk said.

Both agree that communication about a child's habits -- like sleeping, eating and playing - is the key.

"The more parents and providers can work together, the safer the environment will be for the child," Quirk said.

But Quirk said if a parent feels their child is at risk, they should take them out of the facility immediately and find a new day care provider.

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